Preparing for a career conversation when the feedback is always vague

My manager is friendly but career conversations tend to end with things like 'keep doing what you're doing' and 'take more ownership.' I leave with no idea what would actually make me ready for the next level.

For the next meeting I am bringing two or three concrete examples of work I handled and asking what would need to be different in scope, quality or independence for it to count as next-level work. I also want to ask for one thing I should stop doing, not just more things to add.

Hoping specificity is contagious.

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  1. RW
    rosa96
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    Specificity really does help. I’d keep the question anchored in observable things, like what they would expect you to handle without checkin...

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    Specificity really does help. I’d keep the question anchored in observable things, like what they would expect you to handle without checking in.

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    1. PM
      byte_pieda
      1 point

      Yes! And if they still answer vaguely, I think you can ask for one example of next-level work from the team.

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  2. IG
    ing_45
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    Your plan is strong. The examples will keep it from drifting into a vague praise session.

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    Your plan is strong. The examples will keep it from drifting into a vague praise session.

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    1. EP
      parks-e
      3 points

      I’ve had better luck when I bring one example that was easy and one that took a lot of judgment. It makes the gap much clearer.

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    2. SO
      suzanne_55
      2 points

      Asking what to stop doing is smart. Managers often skip that part even though it is the most actionable.

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