Deciding whether to tell strangers you are traveling alone

When someone at a café or on a tour asks whether I'm traveling alone, I usually answer honestly. A few people have warned me never to say that to strangers, which seems overly cautious in ordinary situations. I can imagine being more guarded when someone is intrusive or asking about my accommodation. Do you have a practical rule for what personal details to share casually while traveling, without assuming everyone is a threat?

  • solo-travel
  • tell
  • strangers
  • traveling
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  1. CL
    halfstep
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    I usually say I’m traveling alone and leave it there. It’s normal information in a normal conversation, not an invitation to explain where I...

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    I usually say I’m traveling alone and leave it there. It’s normal information in a normal conversation, not an invitation to explain where I’m sleeping tonight.

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      rafael.6
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      Same. I keep it casual unless the person starts asking oddly specific questions, then I just get boring and change the subject.

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        That’s my rule too. Honest, but vague enough that nobody gets my itinerary by accident.