Finding two-player games that still feel social rather than duel-like

My partner and I want more two-player games, but pure head-to-head duels turn our evenings into silent concentration contests. We like making decisions and teasing each other about them; we don't love attacking one another's progress. Cooperative games are one option, though we're interested in competitive scoring that still feels relaxed. Any recommendations that encourage table talk and interesting shared decisions without the constant ‘I destroy your thing’ dynamic?

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    backlog38
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    Look at games with indirect interaction instead of direct attacks. Stuff where you draft, race for shared options, or compete on a shared bo...

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    Look at games with indirect interaction instead of direct attacks. Stuff where you draft, race for shared options, or compete on a shared board can feel social without being mean.

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      tasdik.4
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      Yeah, and games with open information usually help because you talk through choices more. Secret knife-fighting at the table is not what you’re after.

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      pellegrino_18
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      Patchwork is the obvious one people mention, but I’d also look at Azul-style scoring games. There’s competition, but most of the fun is in watching the other person make a risky move.

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        I’d add something like Cascadia or Kingdomino if you want lighter turns and less staring at each other like rivals in a duel.

      If you like a little table talk, a game with shared timing or shared incentives can be better than something purely tactical. It gives you s...