I've been cooking at home more and feeling better, but a restaurant dinner with friends still triggers the silly thought that I've ruined a ‘good week.’ One meal obviously doesn't define my habits. I'm trying to choose what I enjoy, eat until comfortably satisfied and move on normally the next day. What helped you stop treating social meals as exceptions that needed compensating for later?
Handling social meals without treating one restaurant dinner as a failed week
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I stopped calling them cheat meals, which helped more than I expected. If it’s a normal dinner with friends, then it’s just dinner, not a mo...
I stopped calling them cheat meals, which helped more than I expected. If it’s a normal dinner with friends, then it’s just dinner, not a moral event.
Same. I used to “make up for it” the next day and that just kept the whole thing feeling larger than it was.
I keep one rule: enjoy the meal, don’t turn dessert into a referendum, and go back to normal at the next meal. The food doesn’t need to be paid back.
That’s fine in theory, but some people really do feel better when they make a small adjustment after a heavy meal. The trick is not letting...